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Is There A Loneliness Epidemic? What Loneliness Does to Us and What Can Do About It

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Note: This blog post is not a replacement for therapy or other interventions. The information I share here is based on research papers, articles, chapters, and my experience as a therapist. However, what I write here may not address your specific questions or address your specific concerns; this is general information. Please reach out to someone for assistance if you believe you need it. We deserve all the help and resources that we need!     “Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness?” ―  Haruki Murakami,  Sputnik Sweetheart  Loneliness is something that can exacerbate sadness, make life feel dreary, and the quiet feel like stretches of never-ending longing. But these are not just musings of worried family "tsk tsking" about youngsters these days staying in...

Improving our Mental Health: Five Things That Help (When We Do Them Consistently)!

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  Story 1- "Cee comes back home from work, exhausted after the long day. She lives alone in her apartment, so she usually walks into an empty apartment. She is 25 and is doing well at her job and can afford the rent in her 1bedroom apartment all on her own, despite it being located in a pricey location. But despite all that, she feels empty- she had plans of joining a rock climbing group, running marathons and also taking regular badminton coaching, but with work, and managing things alone, she feels overwhelmed. Not being able to do all the things she dreamt of makes her feel like a failure....so, she has given up on the idea of a hobby. "What's the point" is all she can think..." Story 2- "Ann is a stay-at-home mom, so the world (or at least many she has spoken to) immediately sees her as having an easy life. "I wish", Ann thinks to herself, as she wakes up at 4.30 am to start her day, when many of the people in her neighbourhood, and probably ...